Coaching for parents – Parental Alienation / (imminent) loss of contact
→ Do you fear losing contact with your child?
→ Is contact with your child made impossible by the other parent?
→ Do you feel like a target and are all arrows pointed at you?
→ Does your situation seem to be hopeless and do you want to explore your options for maintaining contact with your child?
Then book an appointment with me for a free intake session.
I offer my services online in English and Dutch.
Mission & Vision
If a parent fears losing contact with a child, as a certified coach and expert by experience, I offer help so that the child has and maintains a loving relationship with both parents.
My story
In 2018 I was about to lose all contact with my newborn son, because his mum gave my fathers’ role and my parental responsibility to another man. This happened without any reason and warning completely behind my back.
I went from enjoying my work, my social life and exercising regularly, to being traumatised by the continuous emotional abuse and false allegations made by our sons’ mother. Her behaviour towards me is in the literature best known as Parental Alienation.
Mostly housebound due to countless and costly legal proceedings, I was unable to enjoy life anymore and professional support was not available. I was told by others that this nightmare might last forever.
On my personal quest for support, I combined existing knowledge and techniques to become resilient to the domestic violence I am still experiencing 24/7. Using this combination helped me to get shared parental responsibility and 50% of the time with my son.
After realising how successful I have been and that targeted parents are losing their hope due to a lack of adequate support for them, I decided to get professionally educated and trained to support other targeted parents.
What are targeted parents?
Usually, during or after separation targeted parents are rejected by their children for no justifiable reason. This rejection is provoked by nothing more than a campaign of alienating behaviours used by the other (alienating) parent to hinder a loving relationship between the targeted parents and their children.
Parental Alienation is a phenomenon that takes the form of family violence and has a negative impact on all members of the family affected by it and it occurs regardless of nationality, religion, or gender of the parents and their children.
One size does NOT fit all !
Every situation is unique, and my coaching has a personalised approach every time. I have a deep understanding of what targeted parents are experiencing and can professionally support them on their own journey to stay (mentally) healthy for themselves and their children.
Through coaching, targeted parents learn to communicate constructively with the alienating parent. The aim is to stay connected with the alienated parent and thus with the child. I have achieved this goal and thus regained my happiness in life. Do you want to explore if you can achieve the same? Then call me today for a free intake session.
For more information on Parental Alienation click here and read the Dutch report from the Expertteam Parental Alienation..
Services
With the services below, I support anyone at risk of losing contact with a child. Click on a service for more information.
Coaching
If you feel you are losing contact with your child, you may have to deal with all kinds of emotions. Like sadness, frustration and anger. Especially when there is actual (imminent) loss of contact or Parental Alienation. You might then start reacting towards the other parent or the child in a detrimental way. Without coaching, you could unintentionally make the gap between you and your child even bigger. Therefore, get in contact me asap to de-escalate your situation.
De-escalating communication
By drafting or reviewing your message, I help you communicate with the other parent or others by writing in a controlled and constructive manner. This ensures that your message reaches the recipient clearly without (further) escalating the current situation. In doing so, I always put the child and your goal first. This contributes positively to any legal proceedings, because you can demonstrate that you can stay out of the conflict and act in the child's best interests.
Information about Parental Alienation
In cases of (imminent) loss of contact or Parental Alienation, help should be offered as early as possible. I help clients to understand that they are confronted with conflicting behaviour from the other parent. It is behaviour aimed at targeting the client, regularly also on the back of the child.
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Would you like to increase your knowledge and skills to prevent (imminent) loss of contact in a de-escalating way? contact me for a free 30-minute intake interview. Click here for the current rates.
Disclaimer
I am a coach and experienced father in the field of (impending) contact loss / Parental Alienation. Therefore, I point out with this disclaimer that I offer services as a coach. I do not offer services as a lawyer, therapist, counsellor or other mental health professional. My services are meant for clients without serious mental health problems.
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